Paradise lost for single men in Thailand
Thailand is often presented as a lush paradise for summer getaways, even among the international media. Yes, the Thai traditions are a bit silly — when some brides hold hands while receiving their husband-to-be, they don’t formally get married — but the country is lovely. If tourists went into Bangkok’s markets and picked through the plastic flowers and chrysanthemums, they’d come away with a classic taste of the Asian experience.Not to mention the streets full of pretty Thai girls ready to fulfill the desires of the millions of single travelers.
But things might be changing. In multiple ways. All it takes is a walk down the world famous Walking street in Pattaya to see how it has changed over the past years.
But even among those who lived a hundred years ago, Thailand remains a source of both envy and concern. Thailand’s urban dwellers complain about the widespread abuse of human rights, particularly by the Thai military, which occupies many outlying provinces and has been subject to a long, bloody occupation of its own cities in the south. Meanwhile, the other half of the country — the rural poor — still live under the grim dictatorship of an entrenched caste, the Bangkok chave, which has literally trashed the rural infrastructure and made endless use of brutal repressive methods to suppress political dissent. (All this was also underwritten by Bill Clinton, who poured millions of dollars into anti-communist programs in the country that were a legal but morally questionable enticement to the Thai elite to ratify Washington’s 1996 Foreign Assistance Act).
Now Thailand’s royal family is refusing to bow to American pressure, and the Trump administration is standing behind the Thai junta. If it comes to that, it won’t be the first time Donald Trump has backed away from a principled ally when it means pleasing some foreign despot.
I know that Thailand’s democracy suffers from some serious flaws — which, to be fair, would happen in any place with as many different political forces and deeply entrenched interests. Yet it’s hard to believe that Thailand is any worse off under Suu Kyi’s dictatorship than it was under her military predecessor, Than Shwe, and now with a military junta.
Yes, the corruption and abuse of power are widespread, but that’s how governing works in most countries. It’s not at all clear that a deeply flawed democracy is preferable to a system in which the right leaders commit crimes against citizens. Moreover, if Thailand had recognized its democratic inadequacies, you’d be likely to see street protests. The worst thing about Thailand’s democracy is that it doesn’t work; the better thing would be to pursue reform.
Most importantly, the kingdom is keeping everything in order, which is more than can be said of Thailand’s more famous neighbors: Laos, Cambodia and Vietnam. If a nation can be said to have earned the right to boast of its success, it’s Thailand.
Why, then, is this country so loved? Part of the answer has to do with some of the pharaonic excesses that have become the standard, like the construction of a new Royal Palace complex, an extravagance that rightly enraged non-Thais. Or with their fondness for large family sizes.
But Thailand is also loved because people have seen it as an engine of global growth, which has afforded Thailand access to a far larger and more affluent world than its comparatively small size would otherwise permit. So when the good fortune runs out, in this case the cruel prophecy turns out to be true.